seems my vps was not set up right for vm
so moved from r81 to r69 as a few people said is better for vm
ONLY going to have this profile on it
##############################
[virginmedia 1841]
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PORT:
ONID: F020
CAID: 1841
PROVIDERS: 000000, 005B01, 005A01, 005B02, 005B03
ACCEPT NULL PROVIDER: 1
ACCEPT NULL ONID: 0
ACCEPT NULL CAID: 0
ACCEPT NULL SID: 0
ENABLE CACHE: YES
ENABLE CACHEEX: YES
ENABLE NEWCAMD: YES
CACHE SENDREQ: YES
CACHE TIMEOUT: 1000
DCW...
after 1841 cache (uk vm)
so moved from r81 to r69 as a few people said is better for vm
ONLY going to have this profile on it
##############################
[virginmedia 1841]
##############################
PORT:
ONID: F020
CAID: 1841
PROVIDERS: 000000, 005B01, 005A01, 005B02, 005B03
ACCEPT NULL PROVIDER: 1
ACCEPT NULL ONID: 0
ACCEPT NULL CAID: 0
ACCEPT NULL SID: 0
ENABLE CACHE: YES
ENABLE CACHEEX: YES
ENABLE NEWCAMD: YES
CACHE SENDREQ: YES
CACHE TIMEOUT: 1000
DCW...
after 1841 cache (uk vm)